Having Trouble with Someone- Redeem Yourself in 4 Steps

Are you are having trouble with someone? What we experience stems from what we are thinking. These are internal truths you have placed upon yourself or others. For instance, you may be saying to yourself, “They are so lazy, I am never helped, they are selfish, my belly is so big, so-in-so always calls me names”. What you are saying to yourself is causing the experiences you are having in your life. Your thoughts reflect out into your world. People will mirror what you are saying inside. Therefore, you must redeem yourself or align yourself to what you prefer.

Everyone is You Pushed Out

Neville Goddard speaks of a phenomena that is called, “EVERYONE IS YOU PUSHED OUT”. This means everyone is going to act out the opinion or assumption you have placed on them or what you have placed on yourself. If you have “titled” them by your opinion, they will act that way and if you have titled yourself in any way, others will mirror that, too. Your outside world will always reflect what is going on inside your mind.

For instance, you look in the mirror one day and think, ugh, my tummy is big. Later on, someone will say something about your stomach or pinch your love handles. They are mirroring or reflecting your thoughts.

Here is a great video explaining “everyone is you pushed out”.

You must redeem yourself back in alignment from your misuse of I AM in order for this to stop. Everything comes from within, therefore, you must fix or redeem yourself from within by aligning yourself back to what you prefer. For example, instead of saying, “My tummy is big” you can say, “I am fit” or “She never texts back”, you can say, “She always responds to me quickly”.

Here is a Helpful Practice for you to Pin Point Your Feelings

Get a piece of paper and pen.

Next, write down what you do not like that is going on.

You can write down words like aggression, no help, ill words towards me, ignoring me, lazy, always gets upset etc. Writing down these words help to pin point your feelings.

Actually, here is the hard truth… these acts came from you. The great part is YOU can fix it!

Let me explain…

You must have thought these ill words one day or recently for some reason. It could have been a quick reaction thought from someone talking about the subject, a reaction to the news (Neville Goddard speaks on controlling our reaction to worldly events), your inner conversations with yourself, you formed an opinion about something, or it might have been a past experience you had. All of this can happen consciously or unconsciously.

Perhaps, you could have put that person in an ugly state by a mere assumption. This state will come with all of its own ugly possibilities. Meaning they can treat you with all kinds of ugly, hence an ugly state. You must redeem yourself for thinking such ill upon them. Make the change by changing yourself and your opinion of them.

I know you feel it’s them and not you that has to change, but really it’s you. You have to alter your opinion or concept of them and change your own self concept about yourself by using the I AM in you. For example, say, “They are always so respectful to me. I AM treated well or I AM respected”.

It is important to REDEEM yourself back to GODLIKE… BEING Loved, Helped, Glorified with beautiful kind words, Safe, Protected, Respected, etc. You have to redeem yourself back to this state of being.

Redeem yourself back to the STATE of the wish fulfilled

It is always US that is the CAUSE of our own outer reality.  
We have to redeem ourselves by changing the OPINIONS we have placed upon ourselves and others. 

People Reflect Your Inner Thoughts

Others will not change and do not trust them to change themselves. They are only reflecting back what you thinking. They reflect back your opinions. If you criticize in any way, they will do the same.

“Put not your trust in men for men but reflect the being that you are, and can only bring to you or do unto you that which you have first done unto yourself.”

Snippet from Neville Goddard’s Interpretation of Scripture

Using Your I AM Power

Practicing I AM affirmations to Redeem Yourself

Practicing I AM affirmations is so important. It helps to align you with God or Source within you. I AM is your power and wisdom. This should always be your center or your go-to when you need strength or power. Here is how you do it:

1. Practice meditating on I AM. Call on the I AM in you. Say to yourself, “I AM, IIIIII AMMM, I AM” and breathe. Feeling the true I AM in you. Do this until you feel a calm.
   The I AM in you will redeem your assumptions, your fears, and your negative inner thoughts.
2. Say some quick truths that you know of yourself, for instance, I am a good person, I can do things, I am ready, I am able etc. Meditating on I AM gets you powered up. Feel your power in I AM. Try it.

Youtube has many I AM meditations you can listen too. Wink!

4 Steps to redeem yourself

1. REPLACE/ REDEEEM any negative thoughts, assumptions, or titles you have placed on someone with something better that you would want. Replace the thought with something more positive. For example, if someone treated you poorly, say the opposite, he/ she is so nice, respectful, or mature.
2. Use your I AM power and say, I AM RESPECTED. If they have mentioned any ill words towards you, these ill words could be inner thoughts you have of yourself. Change those, too. This is just a reflection saying you need to work on those negative thoughts. *Do not get upset about them mentioning it, it first came from you. However, if you feel that they are saying words that do not relate to your character, then it is coming from a blanket assumption of “they always say ill words”. This blanket idea of them “always saying something” opens up to say anything. You may even hear them repeating the same words over and over. That’s because you expect them to say those words. You can replace that with “they speak with love.” Heck, while they are blasting you, you can revise and say they speak with love. Wink!
3. Go into your imagination and PLAY A SCENE of the new you and the new them. What would it look like if they treated you wonderfully. What does it FEEL LIKE?
4. Loop this a couple of times in your mind. Neville says we have to keep looping, UNTIL WE ARE SELF PERSUADED that IT IS TRUE, then, it will objectify itself.

Your new scene is your seed that you just planted. Now, wait for it to blossom.

What if you see no results?

In conclusion, if you see no results, forgive 70×70. This means we must REVISE, REDEEM, and PERSIST in this action until it manifest. It may manifest and then go right back to the old ways. Sometimes it takes a while for it to take complete root. Immediately, start at “I AM” and meditate on feeling I AM (the God in you).  I AMMMM, I am peace, I am respected, I am protected, I am loved, I am wanted, I am liked, I AMMMM and breathe.

Find your inner peace with I AM, first. Then, go back to your assumptions or opinions of yourself or others. What happened? You can say things like, “He got mad because I went out with my friends. He always gets mad when I hang with them.” You have “titled” him as ALWAYS GETS MAD WHEN I HANG WITH FRIENDS. That is the opinionated word you have titled him. Redeem that word or assumption with something you would prefer. Change that opinionated word or thought. Remember, what you say or believe is always true for you.

You have power to give life by your words. Your world is your creation. Redeem your opinionated thoughts. You can say, “He does not mind when I hang with my friends. I can always hang with my buddies.”

Conclusion

Change your opinionated thoughts and the I AM concept about you. Next, in imagination, play a scene of what you would like to happen. Feel the bliss of this newness.

This is Redemption. This is redeeming yourself and your world with others. Doing this practice of redeeming yourself and others will in return reflect a better life for you.

You got this!! Try it!! See for yourself!

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